Your network, your crowd, your followers.
The Friends Palace (仆役宫, also read as 交友宫) governs the wide social field: colleagues, audiences, communities, followers — everyone you can reach but do not necessarily keep. The Siblings Palace is your inner circle; this one is the room.
Whichever major star lands in this palace becomes the protagonist of this area of your life. The readings below describe each star's signature here — brightness and neighbouring stars then set the tone.
| Star | In the Friends Palace |
|---|---|
| Zi Wei 紫微 | You attract people who want access and few who want equality. The useful discipline is cultivating at least a few relationships with no status dimension at all. |
| Tian Ji 天机 | A wide and fluid network rather than a fixed circle. You are good at meeting people and comparatively poor at maintaining the ones you already have. |
| Tai Yang 太阳 | Popular, with a wide acquaintance and a specific weakness: being surrounded by people who enjoy the light without contributing to it. |
| Wu Qu 武曲 | Few friends, high standard, and reliability in both directions. You are not much for social maintenance and the friendships you keep tend to be decades old. |
| Tian Tong 天同 | Wide, warm and undemanding relationships. The weakness is depth: you are liked by many and lightly held by few. |
| Lian Zhen 廉贞 | A complex social field with real loyalties and real rivalries. You are a good ally and a dangerous enemy, and people know which of the two they are dealing with. |
| Tian Fu 天府 | Carefully chosen, long-standing relationships with people of substance. You are not a collector of acquaintances and the circle tends to be small and durable. |
| Tai Yin 太阴 | Few but deep, with women playing a central role in the circle. The relationships are long, specific and emotionally detailed. |
| Tan Lang 贪狼 | A wide and colourful network with real value and real noise. The disciplined version of this placement learns which ten people matter and treats the other four hundred as a stream. |
| Ju Men 巨门 | Real friendships form slowly here because people read the critical faculty first. Once formed, they are strong — and the ones lost tend to be lost over something that was said. |
| Tian Xiang 天相 | Good professional standing and many friendly relations, with the question of depth left open. People trust your judgement and may know rather less about you than they assume. |
| Tian Liang 天梁 | The one people bring problems to. This placement is genuinely beloved and can accumulate a great deal of other people's weight without anyone asking about theirs. |
| Qi Sha 七杀 | Few, close and tested, with a substantial capacity to have made enemies along the way. You respect people who hold their ground and have limited patience for those who do not. |
| Po Jun 破军 | A rotating network with a few very old connections. You are loyal in depth and light in maintenance, and the friends who survive the changes are genuinely permanent. |
Classical manuals read this palace as servants and subordinates; modern readings widen it to audiences and networks. The logic is the same: how does the crowd treat you, and what can you get done through it.
A bright supportive star here reads as a lift from the collective — referrals, allies, an audience that shows up. A dim star reads as social drain: many contacts, little payload.
Compare with the Siblings Palace: if Friends is strong and Siblings is weak, you are built for wide networks over deep ones — and vice versa. Both are workable, but the strategies differ.
Zi Wei needs a precise birth hour. BaZi is the easier place to begin — four pillars, ten gods and element balance from your birth data.
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